B. THE ROLE OF THE FATHER DURING LABOUR AND DELIVERY
In the past, few men were present during delivery. Today, things have changed for the better and your partner probably wishes that you will be with her during labour and delivery. You made your baby together, and it is together that you should welcome your baby into the world.
However, for various reasons, some men prefer not to be present for the delivery. It is a very personal decision. If this is your case, discuss it with your partner and make her understand why you do not want to attend. Help her find a partner you both trust to be with her during labour and delivery.
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a. The Emotions of a Father Facing Delivery
This is what you may feel immediately before the delivery.
- You are excited about the baby finally arriving.
- You are worried about not arriving at the hospital on time. You worry that something will go wrong for your partner or your baby.
- You are overwhelmed by the course of events.
- You are not sure of what is happening or what you should do.
- You hope you will be able to alleviate your partner's pain.
- You feel ready for this experience.
b. Advice to Prepare Yourself for the Delivery
Here are a few tips to help you prepare for the birth of your child.
